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Imbolc: The Mid-Winter Holiday Nobody Knows About, and Why You Should be Celebrating It (click to read more)
17, January 2025
If I told you Imbolc was coming up, there’s a good chance you’d have no idea what I was talking about. And that would be no fault of your own! Last year, I made a video about Imbolc for social media. When I turned on the auto-generated subtitles, they correctly captured every word I spoke…except for Imbolc (which it computed as ‘in bulk.’) Computers don’t even recognize the existence of this holiday, so how would you know about it?
Our modern world has forgotten a great many traditional holidays and seasonal events, and Imbolc is one of them. So if the rest of the world has let Imbolc fall by the wayside, why should you care about it? Keep reading, and I’ll tell you.
What is Imbolc all About, Anyway?
A Celestial Midpoint
Like all Wheel of the Year sabbats, Imbolc corresponds to an important point on the astrological calendar. Imbolc marks the point midway between Yule (the winter solstice - the shortest day and longest night of the year) and Ostara (the spring equinox - when daylight and nighttime last for the same length of time).
What does all that mean?
It means that Imbolc is celebrated at the halfway point of winter. Anyone who gets seasonal depression can tell you just how big a relief it is to know that we’ve made it halfway through the cold, dark time of year. Imbolc serves to mark that important point in time with a healthy serving of optimism.
An Uplifting Celebration
In the ancient civilizations in which Imbolc as we know it was born, winter was an extremely dangerous (and often deadly) time of year. If a village didn’t have a strong harvest, winter could be a time of severe scarcity, and the cold temperatures made it much harder to do even the most basic tasks. This is why Yule is such a riotous celebration of community and light. The only way to survive was to band together, support one another, and hang in there one day at a time.
While our modern-day circumstances aren’t quite as dire, we still see an increased reliance on community during winter, and a certain slowness that settles over us all as we wait for the sun to return its light and warmth to us again. So while it may seem obvious to imagine our ancestors celebrating the halfway point of winter, we still have reason to celebrate too.
Sure, most of us are fortunate enough to live in homes with central heating. And yes, most of us can get food of all kinds from the grocery store (or even on demand from a restaurant or delivery app). But we are still humans, and winter is still a desolate time of year, no matter the modern comforts we’ve developed for ourselves. It’s always worth celebrating a halfway-point during anything that’s taxing.
A Fresh Start
With winter halfway behind us, Imbolc marks a great time to turn our attention toward the future. Imbolc is a holiday of resilience and persistence - a reminder that this, too, shall pass. In fact, it already is. So what would you like your future to look like? Imbolc is a perfect time to start laying the groundwork.
As life slowly returns to the natural world in the form of birds returning from their migrations, animals slowly venturing out of their dens, and early spring plants pushing through the frozen earth, it stands to reason that we can start bringing vibrance back to our own lives as well. Imbolc invites us to reflect on what we’d like to keep in our lives, what we’d like to get rid of, and what we’d like to manifest. We grow as nature grows, so take this opportunity to till the frozen soil of your own life and get ready for the upcoming planting season.
I’m Sold - How do I Celebrate Imbolc?
Appreciate Nature
The easiest way to celebrate Imbolc is to simply open your senses. It’s so easy in our fast-paced world to forget to take in our surroundings. Let this be a reminder to pay attention when you’re outside during this time of year. Keep your eyes open for signs of life, like animal tracks in the snow or the first shoots of greenery poking through the ground. Listen to the sound of the birds. Feel the chilly bite of the air on your face, and remember that you’re halfway through. Spring is coming. If nature can make it through the winter, so can you.
Cleanse Your Space
Winter can be a time of stagnation for all of us, even if we try not to let it get stale. It’s naturally a time for rest and contemplation, so as we look toward spring, now is a great time to cleanse away any stale, stagnant, or negative energy from your space.
There are a variety of ways to do this. You can burn a smoke cleansing bundle, incense, or loose herbs. You can use sound, such as a singing bowl or bells. One of my favorite ways to cleanse a space at Imbolc is to use Florida water. I like to diffuse it into the air, as well as shaking a couple drops into the corners of my home and anointing the window sills and door frames.
If you can, try to pair your energetic cleanse with a physical spring cleaning of your home. Where dust tends to gather in your space is also where the energy is the stalest, so concentrate your attention there.
Reflect and Plan
As we approach the cusp of spring, it’s the perfect time to consider what in your life has served you well, and what you’d like to let go. What would you like to nurture in the coming season of growth? Is there anything that’s holding you back? Now is a wonderful time to come up with things you’d like to manifest, things you’d like to banish, things to hold onto, and things to let go.
There are many ways to reflect on these aspects of life, but I like meditation and journaling. Some people prefer vision boards, or tarot spreads, or even certain types of spellwork. Do whatever works best for you, but take the time to do it. You’ll be glad you did.
Want to Learn More?
If you’d like to dive deeper into this unknown (but important) winter holiday, you won’t want to miss our Imbolc workshops. During these hour-long applied classes, you’ll learn some of the history surrounding Imbolc, as well as the correspondences for the holiday (which crystals, herbs, flowers, and more pair well with Imbolc’s energy), and practical ways to celebrate in a modern world.
Since an important tenet of any pagan sabbat is community, we will also be doing a small craft that will help you draw on some of the holiday energy right then and there! You’ll leave with a guidebook and a goodie bag full of sabbat celebration items to help you get started with your Imbolc celebrations at home. So come join us and tell your friends! We can’t wait to celebrate this charming little holiday with you!
Gothspiration: An Inspiration Guide for Goth Prom (click to read more)
13, October 2024
So you’re thinking about coming to Goth Prom! Excellent choice, if we do say so ourselves. It’s going to be absolutely epic! We’ve got an incredible lineup of live musicians for you, with an open beer and wine bar all night, so you can party like the bats you are!
Whether you bought your tickets ages ago, or you’re still on the fence, hesitating to hit that “buy” button, you’re in the right place for a little goth inspiration. Gothspiration, if you will.
The right outfit can make or break an event. We get it - there’s a lot of assumptions people make when we say, “goth prom.” But did you know that the goth culture has tons of subgenres within it? If you’re panicking because you don’t have anything stereotypically goth in your closet, keep reading! There’s a goth subgenre for everyone, and some of them even feature COLORS!
Keep in mind that this article only covers some of the many subgenres of goth. Goth fashion is all about self-expression, so don’t worry if your goth vibes don’t match any of the ones listed here! What matters most is that you do you! Check out the image carousel for photo inspiration for each look!
Trad Goth
Trad (short for Traditional) Goth is probably the first thing most people think of when they imagine a goth aesthetic. This is goth as was made popular in the 1980s and 90s, with incredibly bold, graphic eye makeup, black hair in bird’s-nest styles, all-black clothing with lots of layers, accessories, and textures. For inspiration, look to Nancy from “The Craft,” Lydia Deetz from “Beetlejuice,” Edward from “Edward Scissorhands,” or The Mistress of Darkness herself, Elvira.
Pastel Goth
If you were really into unicorns as a kid and love a nice dose of softer vibes, Pastel Goth might be for you! Pastel Goth is the close cousin of Kawaii fashion from Japan, both of which draw on soft colors, shapes, and textures. A distinct feature of Pastel Goth, though, is the way it leans into the goth aesthetic with pops of black. It’s a pink, fluffy dress with a black leather harness, or a black suit with splashes of light purple or blue in the accessories.
Romantic Goth
Lovers of vampire vibes, this one’s for you! Romantic Goth is a subgenre of goth that leans heavily into the opulent styles often associated with vampires. This is for people who want to dress like they live in an ancient manor house on the moors, who dream of sweeping through a misty forest in the moonlight. To accomplish this look, think ball gowns, tuxedos, and corsets (yes, there are corsets for men too, and they are wonderful). For textures, go with lace, silk, satin, and velvet. Top it all off with a red rose to finish out the look.
Victorian Goth
Similar to Romantic Goth, Victorian Goth is an aesthetic based around luxury. There is a fair bit of overlap between the two subgenres, and both lend themselves to vampire-inspired looks. However, Victorian Goth is distinct in that, unlike Romantic Goth, it draws on a specific period of fashion history. Put together a Victorian Goth look with a bustle skirt, a top hat, a brocade jacket, and a high-collared shirt. This subgenre of goth can include Steampunk aesthetics as well, but Steampunk on its own tends toward browns and bronzes. If you’re incorporating Steampunk into your Victorian Goth look, remember to keep it black!
Gothabilly
Gothabilly is a fusion of gothic elements and rockabilly style. This is for all the vintage-lovers out there who like to dress with an edge. Traditionally, rockabilly pulls inspiration from 1940s, 50s, and 60s fashion, including pinup art, so think flare skirts, chino trousers, pillbox hats, bumper bangs, and a red lip. Incorporate black and keep in mind that, unlike a lot of fashion from this time that stresses conformity and modesty, Gothabilly is all about breaking the mold. Remember - vintage style, not vintage values!
White Goth
If you thought goth fashion only meant wearing black, think again! White Goth is exactly what it sounds like: goth fashion, but make it white! White Goth subverts the idea that white is a color of conformity and tradition, instead reclaiming the color for the entire subculture. While most goth looks incorporate a high level of color contrast, White Goth approaches the aesthetic from a more washed-out, unsaturated perspective. You can use many types of clothes in a White Goth style, but the unifying factor is a look of otherworldliness. If you’ve always wanted to run away with the fae, this might be a look for you!
Cyber Goth
Cyber Goth fashion is instantly recognizable for its distinctive shapes, neon colors, and post-apocalyptic vibes. If you’re a goth who likes to rave, you’re probably already familiar with Cyber Goth looks. This is a style of goth that is meant to show resilience, energy, and individuality. Often paired with techno or certain types of metal music, Cyber Goth incorporates a lot of mechanical imagery. It draws inspiration from things like computer wires, motherboards, science equipment, and more. Think “Mad Max: Fury Road,” but make it neon.
Medieval Goth
If you love renaissance fairs and Dungeons and Dragons, Medieval Goth might be a goth subgenre you’d enjoy! Drawing inspiration from various cultures and time periods of history, Medieval Goth is less about perfect accuracy and more about capturing the feel of mysticism that comes with these bygone eras. Think LARP armor, flowing gowns, antler crowns, loose hair, and those jackets from Assassin’s Creed. If you want to look like Morgan le Fay or a gothified Lord of the Rings Character, this is perfect for you!
Hippie Goth
Hippie Goth is perfect for anyone whose favorite witchy movie is “Practical Magic,” who loves Stevie Nicks, or who always smells a little bit like incense. This aesthetic is tied very closely to modern witchy styles, but with a distinct 1970s flair. If you’ve always liked a little bit of leather and lace (ha, see what we did there), this is a great style for you to try. Look through vintage shops and thrift stores to find pieces with old-school witchy vibes. Lace dresses, leather flares, rosary necklaces, wide-brimmed hats, and shawls are perfect for this look.
Cabaret Goth
Ladies, gents, friends of all ages, step right up! With inspiration from burlesques, cabarets, and circuses, Cabaret Goth is a very distinct and recognizable style. Similar to Victorian Goth, there tends to be an element of historical fashion in Cabaret Goth as well. But, while Victorian Goth is more about opulence, Cabaret Goth is about showmanship. This is a great subgenre for anyone with a love of performing arts, as it recognizes both the glamor of the stage and the grit of the accompanying lifestyle. The musician Emilie Autumn is a great example of how to bring this aesthetic to life.
Goth Values
While goth fashion is extremely fun and expressive, the aesthetics are secondary to the lifestyle that accompanies them. Being goth isn’t about wearing black! The fashion choices are meant to outwardly reflect the rebellious nature all goths have in them. Being goth means standing against oppression while standing for inclusion and social justice. It means a fascination with the macabre and a love of what the world declares unlovable. Goths do not fear the strange and unusual. Instead, they embrace it and stand up for it when others put it down. Goths are rebels, punks, activists, nonconformists, dreamers, lovers, fighters, and so much more. And yes, goths tend to wear a lot of black while doing it. But no matter how you dress, if you live these values, you’re as goth as they come!
Some tips for absolutely rocking the goth vibes:
Don’t hold back.
Being goth is all about standing out and wearing your individuality boldly. Don’t worry about how other people will be dressed. Go all-out. Or don’t. Do as much or as little as you want. But make sure you’re doing what feels most authentic to you.
Try out thrift stores.
If you’re looking for a last-minute accessory or outfit piece for your Goth Prom look, check out thrift stores or small businesses before reaching for the Amazon app! The goth lifestyle is all about dissent, and there’s not much more punk rock than rejecting our modern cheap-products-instantly-delivered culture in favor of shopping small.
Get crafty.
Before Amazon and Hot Topic, goths made a lot of their own clothes and accessories. Don’t be afraid to get creative! Nothing is more in line with the classic, goth spirit than making something truly unique with your own two hands. Youtube and Tiktok both have some really good tutorials for making clothes and accessories, so there’s nothing holding you back realizing your vision!
What are you waiting for?
Now that you’re feeling inspired, go buy your Goth Prom tickets! You can’t let this epic event pass you by. Come black out the night with us and tons of others like us! Goths of all kinds are welcome, so don’t miss out on this chance to soak in the subculture and let your black flag fly!
Mabon: Pagan Thanksgiving, and Why We All Love Pumpkin Spice So Much (click to read more)
11, September 2024
It’s fall, y’all
There’s just something about fall. Fall has some of the best colors. It’s got some really great clothes. Somehow, it has almost all of the best flavors and smells. Blankets make a reappearance, as do boots. Everywhere you go, the air smells amazing. With each step, leaves swish under your feet. Fall is a collection of sensory experiences that feels like nature’s masterpiece, and if you get a little bit giddy when that first crunchy leaf hits the ground, you certainly aren’t alone!
Along with the giddiness, there’s a certain manic energy that comes with early fall. It’s hard to describe the feeling, but the instant the air starts cooling, it feels like a clock somewhere has begun ticking. All the lackadaisical energy of summer vanishes immediately, and in its place is this innate, universal countdown. There is so much happening this time of year. All the short-lived fall festivals and markets popping up everywhere. Some of the best holidays. Not to mention back to school. It can feel overwhelming. There are only so many beautiful autumn days! You have to take advantage of them because, if you blink, you’ll miss them.
Why the urgency?
We’re coming up on Mabon - the first day of fall, otherwise known as the Autumnal Equinox. This is a transitional time of year, where the daylight hours equal the nighttime hours like the handing over of a baton. There are two equinoxes per year: The Vernal (spring) Equinox, and the Autumnal (fall) equinox. After the Vernal Equinox, the daylight hours increase slowly until we reach the Summer Solstice - the day of the year with the most time in sunlight. With the Autumnal Equinox, however, it’s the other way around. The sunlight hours grow shorter and shorter, until we reach the Winter Solstice and its longest night. As such, Mabon is a point where the days officially start becoming shorter than the nights.
This brings with it two very strong energies: energy of harvest, and energy of preparation.
At the end of the summer, crops are coming to fruition. Historically, a bountiful harvest was what got a community through the scarcity of winter. While in modern times we don’t have quite the same pressures as our ancestors did, all of our food still comes from the earth at some stage, and our ability to buy food from a grocery store is dependent on a strong harvest at the farm level. And we may not need to stock up for winter the way we once did, but the energy of preparation is still in the air.
This doesn’t have to be literal, either. As with many things in witchcraft and paganism, there is a lot of symbolism at play, here. A harvest can look like many things, including manifestations and goals coming to fruition. Preparation can come in the form of readying yourself mentally and emotionally for what is to come. Perhaps you’re laying the groundwork for how you’ll spend the next season of your life. Whether your harvest is a harvest of food, or whether it’s a more metaphorical harvest of intention, winter is coming. Mabon is its first whisper, and we need to be ready.
Dueling Energies?
It may seem like these two energies are at odds with each other. How can we take the time to stop and be thankful, to harvest our crops (literal or metaphorical) while actively preparing for what’s ahead? Is it possible to take time to reflect while also looking and planning ahead?
The answer is yes. Because one of Mabon’s biggest themes is balance.
Both equinoxes reflect a time when the day and night occupy equal hours in a day, which means both annual equinoxes celebrate finding a sense of balance. The Vernal Equinox is the start of a growing season. As such, the type of balance it calls us to find is about opening that time. What can we do to invite more balance into our lives? What have we learned during our reflective winter season that helps us bring more harmony during the coming days?
The Autumnal Equinox, however, occurs at the closing of the growing season. This equinox invites us to look back at all we’ve accomplished during the summer. All that we’ve made real. It invites us to give thanks for that - which is why Mabon is sometimes called Pagan Thanksgiving. But, in the spirit of balance, the energy of Mabon also calls us to look forward and make plans for winter. Where can we make changes during the quiet season upcoming? How can we prepare ourselves for this shift in energy? Mabon asks that we look both back and ahead, and that we take the time now to give thanks, before the urgency of winter really is upon us.
So why do we all love fall so much?
The answer to that is simple: It’s a new beginning. We as humans love when something that has lasted for a while comes to an end. It’s only natural. We’re not meant to be stagnant creatures, which is why fresh starts are just that - fresh!
Mabon brings with it some wild energy that has us all feeling anticipatory. There’s just something about it that has us all excited for all the beauty of the upcoming season. Our obsession with sweater weather, PSLs, apple orchards, pumpkin patches, and all things autumnal is just our natural, human way of celebrating! Our souls know the turning of the seasons. They understand how the universe flows and how energy shifts. So honor that excitement! This is a time of harvest, revelry and reflection. Celebrate and prepare for the upcoming season in whatever way you’d like, but don’t forget to balance it with some gratitude for the days past!
If you’d like to learn more about Mabon, including ways to celebrate, sign up for our Mabon workshop! Our Wheel of the Year educator, V, will take you through a more in-depth look at the holiday, and you’ll even get a goodie bag of sabbat celebration items! Space is limited, so grab your seat soon!